The Oldest Social Technology in the World
Before there were apps designed to connect people, before there were networking events with name badges, before there were even pubs, there were games. People sat across from each other, rolled dice, moved pieces, bluffed, bargained, and laughed. The technology has evolved — we have gone from carved bone dice to games with two hundred miniatures and a rulebook the size of a novel — but the fundamental mechanism has not changed at all. Board games force you to look at the person across the table, read their face, negotiate, celebrate, and occasionally accuse them of cheating with more passion than the situation warrants.
In a world where most social interaction happens through screens — where a "deep conversation" might mean a thread of voice notes — sitting around a table with a physical game in front of you feels almost radical. There is no notification to pull your attention away. There is no algorithm deciding what you see next. There is just a group of people, a shared challenge, and the kind of interaction that actually builds friendships.
Exeter, as it happens, is a genuinely excellent city for this. It has the South West's first dedicated board game café, a thriving community gaming scene, weekly meetups at pubs and community spaces, and a competitive gaming bar with everything from augmented reality darts to neon-lit mini golf. Whether you are a seasoned tabletop player or someone who has not touched a board game since a tense family round of Monopoly in 2014, there is somewhere in this city for you.
Board: The South West's First Board Game Café
Location: 79 South Street, EX1 1EQ Entry: £7.95 per adult, £6.50 per child (excluding food and drink) Opening hours: 11am–10pm Website: board.uk
If you only visit one gaming venue in Exeter, make it Board. Originally crowdfunded through Kickstarter, this place holds the distinction of being the first board game café in the South West, and it has earned a devoted following since opening.
The concept is simple and brilliant. You pay a cover charge, and in return you get access to a library of over three hundred games and a reserved table for at least three hours. The collection spans everything — quick party games you can learn in two minutes, strategic euro-games that will consume an entire afternoon, cooperative adventures, bluffing games, word games, and card games. If you have no idea what to play, their staff are trained to recommend games based on your group size, the vibe you are after, and how much complexity you can handle.
The food and drink side of Board is a proper operation, not an afterthought. The menu includes pub classics, burgers, grilled cheese sandwiches, chicken strips, and a solid range of vegan options. They serve homemade drinks, milkshakes, cocktails, and craft beers. You can comfortably spend an entire evening here — arrive at six, play three or four games, eat dinner in between, and leave at closing time having had one of the best social evenings of your month.
If you are visiting Board with a group of newcomers, ask the staff to suggest a "gateway game" — something like Ticket to Ride, Azul, or Codenames that is easy to learn but genuinely engaging. Save the three-hour strategy epics for when everyone is hooked.
Why Board Works So Well Socially
There is something specific about the environment at Board that makes it work for building friendships. The tables are close enough that you feel part of a community but private enough that you can have a real conversation. The background noise is laughter and the satisfying clatter of wooden pieces, not pounding music. And the games themselves provide a structure that makes socialising easier — particularly for people who find unstructured social situations stressful.
If you have ever been to a drinks event where you spend the entire time wondering when to leave, a board game café solves that problem completely. The game gives you a reason to be there, a shared focus, and natural conversation points. You are not standing in a circle making small talk. You are arguing about whether someone just committed a war crime in Settlers of Catan, and somehow that is more bonding than any icebreaker activity ever devised.
This is exactly the kind of low-pressure social environment that works brilliantly for turning acquaintances into real friends.
Community Gaming Nights
Not everyone wants a dedicated gaming café. Some people prefer the atmosphere of a pub, a community space, or simply a more casual setting where the games feel like a natural part of the evening rather than the entire point of it. Exeter has several excellent options.
Exeter Board Gamers
The Exeter Board Gamers group has been running for several years and has built a proper community of enthusiastic players who meet weekly. You can find them on Meetup and Facebook, where they post weekly reminders and game suggestions. Their main regular events include:
Sunday Games at The Bowling Green — A relaxed Sunday afternoon session starting at 2pm at the Bowling Green pub. The atmosphere is friendly and welcoming, with plenty of table space. People bring their own games, and there are always enough to go around. This is the easiest entry point if you are new and slightly nervous about turning up alone — the group is specifically set up to welcome newcomers.
Sunday Games at The White Hart — Most weeks, the group also meets at The White Hart on South Street. The pub atmosphere adds something that a dedicated gaming space cannot quite replicate — you are playing games in a pub, with a pint, and the informality of it makes the whole thing feel effortless.
The group has an active presence on Meetup, Facebook, and a WhatsApp group where members discuss games, share reminders about sessions, and organise ad hoc get-togethers. If you are the kind of person who needs a small push to show up somewhere new, the online community makes that first step significantly easier.
Pennsylvania Board Games at Sylvania Community Stores and Café
Location: 1 Sylvania Drive, EX4 5DT Cost: £3.50 per person Age: 16+ Time: Games start around 7:15pm
This is a gem. Pennsylvania Board Games runs weekly evening sessions at the Sylvania Community Stores and Cafe in the Pennsylvania area of Exeter. The cost is just £3.50 per person (card payment preferred), and you can bring your own games or play from the selection already there.
The range of games on any given evening spans quick, light card games through to deeper strategy titles, with multiple tables running different games simultaneously. It is a community shop and café, so there are drinks and snacks available, and the atmosphere is relaxed and genuinely welcoming.
What makes this option special is the price point and the community feel. Board is brilliant but the cover charge means a casual pop-in feels like a commitment. At £3.50, you can try a gaming evening with almost no financial risk, and the regulars are the kind of people who will happily teach you a new game, lend you a spare seat at their table, and make you feel like you belong.
If you are not sure which community gaming night to try first, start with the Exeter Board Gamers Sunday session at The Bowling Green. The afternoon timing feels less intimidating than an evening event, and the pub setting means you can always default to just having a drink if the games are not your thing.
Competitive Gaming Bars
Boom Battle Bar
Location: Guildhall Shopping Centre, EX4 3HP
For people who want their gaming with more adrenaline and less strategy, Boom Battle Bar offers a different kind of experience entirely. This is competitive socialising turned up to eleven — augmented reality darts, axe throwing (from £9 per person), crazier golf through neon-lit obstacles, shuffleboard, American pool, beer pong, prosecco pong, and ping pong, all under one roof.
The venue is loud, colourful, and unapologetically fun. It is not the place for a quiet game of Chess, but for a birthday celebration, a work social, or an evening where you want to do something more memorable than sitting in a pub, it delivers. There is a full bar and food menu, and a live DJ on weekend evenings. The venue goes eighteen-plus only after 8pm.
Boom Battle Bar occupies a different niche from Board or the community gaming nights. It is less about deep, sustained interaction and more about shared excitement — the roar when someone lands an axe throw, the theatrical despair when a golf ball bounces off a neon windmill. Both types of social experience have value, and Exeter is fortunate to have both.
Building Your Own Gaming Group
Perhaps the best thing about board games as a social activity is that you do not need a venue at all. A kitchen table, a game, and a few willing people are all it takes. But building a regular group from scratch requires a bit of intention.
Start Small
Three or four people is the sweet spot for learning games and having proper conversations. Inviting twelve people to your first games evening sounds generous but usually ends in chaos — half the group will not understand the rules, someone will get bored, and you will spend more time explaining than playing.
Choose the Right Games
For a new group, avoid anything that takes more than ten minutes to explain. Games like Codenames, Wavelength, The Crew, Sushi Go, and Love Letter are designed to be learned quickly and played immediately. Save Terraforming Mars for month six.
Make It Regular
The research on friendship formation is clear: consistency matters more than intensity. A fortnightly games evening that happens reliably will build stronger friendships than an epic monthly session that keeps getting postponed. Pick a day, pick a time, and protect it. There is real power in showing up consistently.
Feed People
This is not optional. A board game evening without snacks is just a meeting. Crisps, dips, and something sweet are the minimum. If you want to be the host everyone looks forward to visiting, make a big pot of chilli or order pizza. The combination of food and games is ancient — the Romans did it, and they built an empire.
Gaming Events and Seasonal Highlights
Exeter's gaming scene is not limited to regular weekly sessions. Throughout the year, Board runs themed gaming nights, including seasonal events around Halloween and Christmas that add a festive twist to the usual evening. They also occasionally host game launch events where publishers showcase new titles — a brilliant way to try games before you buy them.
The Exeter Board Gamers community organises occasional larger meetups and gaming days, particularly around bank holidays, where the full range of the group turns out and the table count climbs accordingly. These bigger events are worth attending even if you are new — the higher numbers mean more variety in games and more people to meet.
For those interested in the crossover between gaming and other creative pursuits, the Exeter Phoenix events calendar occasionally features gaming-adjacent events — from tabletop RPG sessions to game design workshops. And if you discover that you enjoy the social side of gaming more than the competitive side, our guide to the best things to do in Exeter when you are new covers a range of other community-focused activities.
Where to Buy Games in Exeter
If the gaming bug bites and you want to build your own collection, Exeter has options. Board themselves sell games, and their staff can recommend titles based on what you enjoyed playing in the café. For a wider selection, online retailers like Zatu Games and Board Game Guru offer next-day delivery and frequently have sales.
A good starter collection for a social gaming group might include:
- Ticket to Ride — route-building across a map, easy to learn, surprisingly strategic
- Codenames — team-based word association, brilliant for larger groups
- Carcassonne — tile-laying medieval city building, gentle but competitive
- Pandemic — cooperative disease-fighting, perfect for groups who would rather work together than against each other
- Wingspan — bird-themed engine building, gorgeous to look at and deeply satisfying to play
Screens Off, Faces Up
There is a quiet revolution happening in Exeter's social scene, and it is happening around tables covered in cardboard, wooden tokens, and the occasional argument about whether someone definitely saw the rules and is choosing to ignore them.
Board games do something that very few modern social activities manage. They create sustained, focused, face-to-face interaction in an age when that has become genuinely rare. They give introverts a structure to socialise within and extroverts something to channel their energy into. They turn strangers into teammates, teammates into friends, and friends into people who text each other midweek to ask if they are free on Sunday.
Exeter has the venues, the community, and the culture to support this. Whether you start at Board with a burger and a borrowed copy of Azul, or you turn up to a Sunday session at The Bowling Green with nothing but curiosity, you are stepping into something that has been bringing people together for thousands of years — and it still works better than anything Silicon Valley has managed to invent.
If you are looking for more ways to build a social life in Exeter that goes beyond the usual, have a look at our guide to the best restaurants for group dining or explore unusual activities and day trips from the city.
Gaming-Adjacent Experiences in Exeter
If board games have sparked your appetite for social activities with a competitive edge, Exeter has plenty more to offer. Boom Battle Bar in the Guildhall takes the competitive socialising concept in a louder, more physical direction — axe throwing, neon-lit mini golf, and augmented reality darts. For something quieter and more cerebral, our guide to the best pubs in Exeter includes several with their own quiz nights, which scratch a similar itch to board games but with added trivia.
If your gaming group wants to combine their hobby with food, the best brunch spots in Exeter are worth knowing about for morning sessions, and the craft beer and taproom guide will help you find the perfect post-game pint. Board itself serves a solid menu, but variety is the spice of life — and sometimes the best part of a gaming evening is the debate over where to eat afterwards.
Board games are one of the most accessible social activities in Exeter because they require no prior skill, no special equipment, and no physical fitness. If you are new to Exeter and looking for ways to meet people, a Sunday afternoon at The Bowling Green with the Exeter Board Gamers is one of the gentlest, lowest-pressure entry points into the city's social scene. You do not even need to bring a game — just bring yourself.
